I'm Not Opinionated

E-harmony

This is what E-harmony says about me:

By analyzing your answers to the Relationship Questionnaire we have created the following Personality Profile. Everyone has a set of subconscious wants and desires that drive their choices and attitudes. By asking you questions about a wide range of emotional issues, this report has established general patterns in your values.Some of the following information may seem inaccurate or incomplete. Remember, that this profile is a snapshot of your personality at a specific moment. It is not intended as an in-depth analysis of your complete being, but as a tool to aid in self-discovery.

-You may be well thought of because you rarely antagonize others or rarely want the spotlight.
-When treated fairly, you can be sound and stable and seen as a dedicated and devoted individual.
-You hesitate to say no and will seldom, if ever, attack.
-When meeting new people, you may be rather unassuming and mild mannered.
-You will be cooperative and easygoing in social groups and family events, because of an inherent need not to make waves or cause hostility.
-You are rather quiet and modest.
-You tend not to show assertiveness and are never domineering or egocentric.
-You prefer others to be in the spotlight rather than yourself.
-You become most comfortable in situations when the best offense is a good defense.
-You seldom act aggressively towards others, but will demonstrate a passive resistance from time to time.

Each person has a unique way of communicating. We use a combination of body language, facial expression, verbal tone and word choice to share ourselves with others. The following statements offer a look at the natural behavior you bring to an interpersonal relationship.

-Your style shows you to be a much better listener than many other styles. You will listen carefully and attend to what others say. People who are talkative by nature may seek you out because of the natural audience you provide.
-You would most likely not consider yourself an extremist on various issues, or in socializing with others. You do not need to be the center of attention like others, and in fact may feel rather uncomfortable when in the limelight.
-You generally communicate with others in a mild-mannered way. You do not like to make waves and create disharmony. As a result, you may defer your own ideas to those of others.
-Because of a need to avoid confrontation, you may not express an opinion. As a result, you may go along with others, even if you disagree with the activity, sacrificing your own self-interests to accommodate others. -In some new situations you may become somewhat unsure because of your need to feel secure in most activities. You will warm up to the new people or event in your own time.

Following are some of the specific strengths and/or personal characteristics that you bring to a relationship. These may form the foundations of many of your friendships and dealings with other people. Some will seem obvious, but you may be surprised by others. Take a moment to reflect on each and consider what role it may have played in your past successes, and even failures.

-You tend to bring feelings of security and stability to a relationship.
-You take pride in being very loyal to friends and family.
-You are good at helping others to reach their goals.
-You are generally very patient with people.
-You are excellent at listening to the concerns and ideas of others.
-You are a dependable and caring partner.
-You are good at reconciling (i.e. you don't like to sulk after a conflict is resolved).
-You like to gather facts and think things over before offering a strong opinion.
-You are excellent at listening to your partner.
-You are very supportive of other people.
-You tend to be a very calming influence in heated situations.

For the most part, I think this is accurate....hmm....

posted by jdanielsc @ 8:37 PM